I was shaken up when my coach asked me this question.
Since childhood I belonged to this category.
The glass was always half empty for me!
It was so easy for me to point out faults in everything around me.
I could easily see what was missing.
It also gave me pleasure to tell everyone you are not good enough.
Maybe I felt much better knowing that everyone had flaws & I was better than them 🙂
The next question from my coach was
“Are you loving yourself enough?”
As I reflected more on this question,
Maybe it was a convenient way for me to hide my flaws by finding faults in other people. I was not distracting other people but myself.
Maybe the glass was not half empty!
I was half empty!
I was not even willing to accept leave alone love myself !
I finally broke my pattern of negativity.
I also realised I was seeking negativity.
Because that is what I had within me.
As the great Rumi said
“WHAT YOU SEEK IS SEEKING YOU”
Do you also find faults?
Who are you distracting?
Are you loving yourself?
P.S: I still struggle with negativity sometimes
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